Thanks But No Thanks

Oh em gee !!! I've Missed you guys so much. I had to take a hiatus.. You know ,a moment to regroup. But ize back. With plenty tea and juice!! Well guys, recently I had an opportunity to run into a gentleman that was doing pretty darn well for himself economically. He had all of the things that money could buy. Houses, cars, vacationed often and it appeared that he kept a really good eye on his finances in terms of maintenance. Outwardly he was every woman's dream guy. One night he invited me over to hang out. (No y'all not Netflix and chill). I went, only because there was a slight interest and I was curious about this giy. For more than one reason. I got there and he eagerly gave me the bachelor pad tour. It was nice. Really nice. I was impressed and I let him know that he was a great decorator and housekeeper. After I left, he called me to let me know that he didn't feel as if I was enthusiastic enough about his "stuff" (what?) I reiterated to him that his place and cars and pictures and decor were fantastic
 But, that I wasn't necessarily head over heels with his assets. He couldn't understand it. He even made mention of how most women fall in love with his belongings. I has to let him know repeatedly that, material things are nice to look at. And also nice to have . But for me I need so much more to be smitten. I need character Witt honesty, consistency and emotion. I know in this day in time when everything that glitters and blings gets the most attention it may seem strange but. Those things are ever fleeting and always being upgraded and replaced for something newer. Give me substance over the miscellaneous any day. It's what lasts even after the new model comes out..

Remember y'all that iPhone 6 plus was just the it item 6 months ago. And now folks are upgrading for the New 7.

Until next time, Stay Blessed and Beautiful my loves #Smooches

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